Not even a taboo topic in this day and age - Jason Derulo even has a hit song about it! But I can’t express myself in that way, because it makes me feel like a fraud. Becky, 29 “I think part of my problem is that I don’t think talking about sex is dirty.We know a lot of guys like it, and there are a lot of women who just "go with it"… A bunch of women were surveyed by Bustle, and here's what they really think: 1. I mean, I’ll blurt some shit out during sex but it’s never intentional, never really with any forethought about whether or not it will be “sexy.” I feel like if you’re in the moment and you say something, that’s really hot — but like - asking someone to talk dirty? So the few partners I have had that were into dirty talk, I just didn’t know how to respond. I will totally say, ‘hey, this is what I am into,’ and will ask folks in the moment if they want something or like something, but that’s it.Stephanie, 23 “I dated a guy in college who was really in to talking dirty and at first it was really hard for me.I felt so silly, but after awhile it felt comfortable.
If shesays yes however, say something that’skinda sensitive and sappy, like “I wish Iwas there”. HAVE YOU TRIED MAKING OUTWITH SOMEONE JUST BECAUSE YOUWERE Hot? This is a way for you to find out if she’sone heck of a passionate woman and willsuccumb to the heat of the moment. Although a cliché, this willdefinitely make her think about yourpackage, in a less obvious kind of way.
Don’t rush her, take a question and literally flog it.
For example, if you are asking her what pant she is wearing, find out what type, G-string, half-string, full pant, all front etch. If I were there with you, would you want to kiss me?
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